The Stillness and the Calm

DSC_0033Ever have those days when you sit outside on the porch, covered with a throw blanket, and birds are chirping, hours after the sun has set? I have. 🙂

And it was that summer evening that I came to a realization: I’m not content with wanting to be content because I’m always looking for more. I like change, I like new things, I appreciate the little joys in life, but it never seems to be enough.

I lean to the right and hear a loud bird humming its song, one minute after the next – it sings. I face forward and hear a distant bird, it, also humming its melodious song, one hum after the next. Then I squint to the left, and I listen for a bird, but barely hear it. I know there’s wildlife down there, but I can’t hear it.

A few minutes later, there is is. It’s as if the birds from my right are singing to the birds at the pond, to my left. They just keep singing.

The sky gets darker and I the breeze gets stronger, I should probably go inside soon, I think. But once I return into a warm, comfortable, familiar space, my home, the openness and freshness of the outdoors will be missed.

I sit here a little longer, hoping the mosquitoes don’t come out to get me. I stare at my neighbour’s houses and wonder… what is their story? How was their day? What’s the best thing they’ve experienced this week? I stop in my thoughts and listen, again. The birds are still singing.

The street lights come on, it’s time to go in. But I can’t help it. I wonder what those birds are thinking. What does their song mean? What are they saying? Are they happy? Are they sad? Are they scared? Are they feeling the chills as me? What’s their story? 

Self-discovery is about listening, being still, and digging deep. It’s about learning, reading, and expanding your knowledge about the world. Take some time and be still. You’d be surprised as to what brings inspiration to you.

I didn’t know I’d learn a lesson from the birds, that evening I sat outside. I should be content and keep singing my song while I discover more about me. As I become this young woman, strong and independent – sing with my friends, tell them about my day. Near or far, there’s a friend out there inspiring me. Like the birds, I will keep sharing my story.

-LifeisaBeaut ❤

 

 

Anywhere but here

IMG_2889Same people, same places, same old routine gets boring.

Get out. Explore. Meet new people, try new food, discover more of me.

I’m stuck in the same story line, looking for a new plot to write.

I know I can’t do it here, I need to move, see, pave a new path, start a new journey.

I will surround myself with people who inspire me, bring life to my stories again, and just be.

There’s so many things I’m unsure of, but one thing I know for sure: I need to be anywhere but here.

-LifeisaBeaut ❤

From a Daughter’s Eyes to a Father’s Heart (Father’s Day Poem)

 

Fathers are important. They’re the head of the family, they’re the leaders of the household. Everyone has a dad, a father-figure, a mentor, or a best friend.

An integral lesson about fathers is found in Hebrews 12:7-11

“Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? If you are not disciplined – and everyone undergoes discipline – then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live! (v7-9)

We need male figures in our lives for direction, for guidance. We need our Heavenly father to be our leader, our companion.

As we celebrate and appreciate fathers, I pray that we remember our Father, our Creator.

Much love.

-LifeisaBeaut ❤

When you’re looking for inspiration

…it’s time to step up your creativity.

Inspiration is everywhere. It’s the caricature in front of my desk, it’s the calendar hanging on my wall, it’s the dog barking outside, it’s the dandelions floating in the air, it’s the song I just heard on the radio – see, and that’s just the closest “everywhere” for me right now.

Your everywhere is dependent on what you decide to look at, what you decide to pay attention to. So look around. Look up. Look to your left and right. Look down. Inspiration comes from the person looking for it. You create inspiration by seeking it.

The next time you think, “I need inspiration” – look at yourself. Stare at your reflection in the mirror and ask: What actually inspires me? What can I share with people that inspires me to inspire? You’ll be surprised with what you come up with. 🙂

-LifeisaBeaut ❤

Dealing With the Root

Do you find yourself running back to old, deceitful, ungodly ways? Be honest with yourself, and answer yes. What you spend passive time on, selfish indulgences, and careless action – not good. Take some time and read this post of my friend in Christ, Tavares Grey. #mindfuel (that’s not a typo) #faithspiration (neither is that)

“In order to live a life of victory, it’s time to stop entertaining ourselves that keep us walking in defeat. ”

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I don’t know about everyone else, but I know my struggles. They are clear as day and I know where I need to make adjustments even though sometimes I may pretend to be blind to them. My question that I want you to answer to yourself truthfully is this: Do I have a reoccurring sin or struggle in my life that aims to weigh me down every time I try to go forward? Maybe you don’t have one and that’s fine, I don’t believe you but that is okay. The first step to growth is realizing change needs to be made.

So the bible says in Hebrews 12:1 to lay aside every weight and the sin that easily trips us up. A weight is something in our lives that may not be sinful, but they are very well distracting. Playing video games, hours of netflix/social media/or liking material things may…

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1, 2, or 3…?

What an inspiring video…
Maybe I could start my own non-for-profit one day…
How much longer until I know what to do?…

So. Many. Thoughts. 

This post goes out to my fellow students/graduates/mentors/anyone-who’s-completed-something-significant followers. How did you know you wanted to pursue what you’re pursuing? I find that there’s so many options, so many opportunities, it makes it challenging to just pick ONE. I mean, do you have to pick JUST ONE?

It’s been exactly 2 weeks since my ACL reconstruction surgery, and boy, let me tell you – I’m ready to run! (well, mentally). 

As a third-year undergrad, I couldn’t help but think about what I want to do when I graduate. Like, should I be considering that, now? Come on, you’ve gone down this route before, too. Thinking, what should I do after graduation? 

Let’s face it, it’s not all about the gown, diploma, and long speeches.

People say, “Follow your passion”, heck why not take your passion with you? Others suggest, “You’ll know when you get there” — where exactly am I going?

Isn’t this something we millennials struggle with from the get-go? — What do I want to be when I grow up? What degree should I pursue? Do I really want to go to college? How about university? Maybe I’ll just take a year off…  What will truly make me happy?

One of my inspirations, Terri Savelle Foy has said,

“You don’t decide your gifts, you discover them, then you need to develop them. Talents come so natural to us, that many times we don’t even recognize them as talents.”

So, our gifts ARE discovered, and our talents ARE natural. So perhaps it’s about zoning in and focussing on less (Focus on less); what matters to you during the process of completing my undergraduate degree, working where I work, or volunteering where I volunteer – It all adds up.

1, 2, 3…It all adds up.

It all adds up to what you’re working on.
It all adds up to what you’re considering or aspiring to do.
It all adds up to what you’ve failed at doing.
It all adds up to what you’ve achieved.
It all adds up to make this life, yours.

Own it! As for me, I’ve gotta start taking my own advice and really narrow down my options.

Thanks for hearing me out family!

-LifeisaBeaut ❤

Aim Higher

You want to be better. You want to “level up”. You want to improve. I get it. Since I’ve been a recovering-couch-potato for nearly 2 weeks, I’ve actually started to hear my thoughts – mhmm, apparently it’s possible.

For my fellow students, you’ve probably made a list of things you want to accomplish in the next 4 months before you go back to school. Come on, admit it. You’ve done it before, or just yesterday. haha. 

Stick around and hear me out, yeah?

Stop searching and start creating.
Happiness isn’t found, it’s created. Tap into your creative side and see where that goes. If you can spend hours scrolling through your social media feeds thinking, Wow, outfits on point! The view’s amazing! I’ll travel there one day, too! These are all inspiring and motivating, sure. But you can’t “level up” by looking to get a step higher. Rather, take action and create  opportunities to get you to the “next level”. Help yourself pave the path to be happy, not find happiness. Happiness is a state of being, not an endpoint. 

Do something about it.
“Move”, it’s a verb. Aiming higher not only requires the desire to reach new heights, but action and follow through. I, for one as guilty of planning, visioning, and plateauing, but when I do get to work and do see how much work it actually takes to complete a project – accomplished! Go ahead. Do something that matters!

ResetTry something new.
You learn something new every day (if you open yourself to learning). Cassey Hao from Blogilates says, “If you’re good at everything, life would be boring!” Got that bike you’ve wanted to test ride? Go! Got that book title you’ve been meaning to write. Go! Be fearless. Take chances. Do something you’ve always wanted to do.

What’s your next personal challenge?

Comment below and share what challenge you plan on undertaking this spring/summer. Let’s encourage one another and aim higher. 

— LifeisaBeaut ❤